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I can't go to homecoming tonight, because I was flirting with my ex…well.. My ex-girlfriend who is dating my sister's boyfriend's brother. So my sister has a boyfriend. Who has a younger brother. who is dating my ex…I mean…I was flirting with both of them..not just one…I told them this morning and the boyfriend said "that's bull" so…they were ok with me flirting.

4am delirious Win shouldn’t have read this because I am quite literally having a stroke bc I can’t read this. I get the concept and it sounds like a no bueno situation, so I really hope everything works out dude.

@ElderGod-Winter-The-Renegade-Legionnaire

I am about to bang my head against a wall. I am very stressed because of the amount of school work and personal things I have to take care of is— too much. Does anyone have any tips for time management organization? I have a slight inkling it might help me to a degree, so I can at least relax a little.

This is probably going to be different for everyone but personally, having a really simple bullet journal type thing has helped me declutter my mind. Whenever I get a new task, I note it down so I can get it out of my head and come back to it later. This is a link to video with an overview on bullet journalling: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fm15cmYU0IM. You could give it a go? But it might not be for you or what you are looking for. I just realised that this isn't exactly time management, sorry.
(I also love making lists to break things down and ticking off tasks one by one but that might just be me.) Hope you find something that works for you :)

I really can’t help you bc I have insomnia and my hours of business are 11pm to 3am. But when I’m coherent I use a color coded calendar and color coded classes and assignments. I really hope that makes sense bc I can’t even understand my own writing I am too far gone. I am very tired. On the plus side I am seeing the shadow people again.

@ElderGod-Winter-The-Renegade-Legionnaire

My managers: We're really short staffed right now
Also my managers: Also, we're cutting everyone's hours.

Someone make it make sense I literally cannot deal with this right now

lmao at my work we don't need any new people. they're literally cutting hours and they won't stop hiring and so those of us who have been here longer keep getting hours cut to accommodate new people on the schedule like bruh

Down with the workiarchy. Viva La resistance. Rebel, revolt, gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss, and whatever else you wanna do. Go for it.

@Relsey-TheElder

I am about to bang my head against a wall. I am very stressed because of the amount of school work and personal things I have to take care of is— too much. Does anyone have any tips for time management organization? I have a slight inkling it might help me to a degree, so I can at least relax a little.

What helped me wasn't scheduling time to do tasks it was scheduling in time to take breaks, and always having something I default to to calm me down to unwind my brain, but still feel productive. When I get back from classes I play breath of the wild, I play until I feel I've made progress in the game, weather that's going through a shrine or getting a new horse, or gathering up a bunch of materials, just some little sense of accomplishment I can build off of to then get homework and other tasks done.

If you want to write out a schedule, make it realistic. I know it's so tempting to say you'll be able to jump right from task to task, but your brain needs a break, it needs a buffer for when you didn't get enough sleep, or you have an extra big assignment. Be realistic. If in a perfect world you could finish your homework in 4 hours give yourself 5 hours to get it done. For example, I go to the gym with a friend of mine around 6 am, so I have my alarm set for 5:40 am, In reality, It takes me 10 minutes to get dressed and walk to the gym. I have built in a buffer of about 10 minutes if I need to stay in bed for a little longer psyching myself up, I can, I've built time in for that. Don't make a schedule so tight it's impossible to keep, it's tempting, it looks nice, But you wont be able to follow it.

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September 19, 2022

Twisted my ankle last Friday trying to go down a flight of stairs. It was fun. 10/10, would do again. (Jk, it sucks not being able to walk because nobody effing lets me. It doesn't even hurt that bad. . .)

@Darkblossom

September 19, 2022

Twisted my ankle last Friday trying to go down a flight of stairs. It was fun. 10/10, would do again. (Jk, it sucks not being able to walk because nobody effing lets me. It doesn't even hurt that bad. . .)

Oof agh that's rough :(

@spacebluelily

i got into a fight today because i called someone who said that waking up at 6 am for school was not normal…. dramatic.

@CaseyJ

My boyfriend dumped me..I think…honestly he can be very confusing. And he is jealous that I want to join the D&D club at my school and won't let me join his also.

@ElderGod-Winter-The-Renegade-Legionnaire

Rip man things happen. Do what makes you happy dude. Don’t let your happiness depend on someone else. Be you. And enjoy the chaos.

@CaseyJ

Right well…He's been off and on with me for 3 years..so..:D I am planning to make it work..maybe.

@Relsey-TheElder

Honestly, If you're crying over them more than they make you laugh, Drop them. If they're trying to control you, Drop them. If they do not spark joy, Drop them. If the vibes are off, Drop them.

@ElderGod-Winter-The-Renegade-Legionnaire

Honestly, If you're crying over them more than they make you laugh, Drop them. If they're trying to control you, Drop them. If they do not spark joy, Drop them. If the vibes are off, Drop them.

Big facts Rels. Mega facts.

@CaseyJ

September 21, 2022

Honestly, If you're crying over them more than they make you laugh, Drop them. If they're trying to control you, Drop them. If they do not spark joy, Drop them. If the vibes are off, Drop them.

… He does make me happy, and he might be a little controling, but not as much as he used to be…I don't cry over him anymore…cause he always comes back.

@ElderGod-Winter-The-Renegade-Legionnaire

September 21, 2022

Honestly, If you're crying over them more than they make you laugh, Drop them. If they're trying to control you, Drop them. If they do not spark joy, Drop them. If the vibes are off, Drop them.

… He does make me happy, and he might be a little controling, but not as much as he used to be…I don't cry over him anymore…cause he always comes back.

To me, that sounds like the vibes are off. I wouldn’t go back into that relationship.

@CaseyJ

September 21, 2022

To me, that sounds like the vibes are off. I wouldn’t go back into that relationship.

Well….Fair.

@Relsey-TheElder

Honestly, If you're crying over them more than they make you laugh, Drop them. If they're trying to control you, Drop them. If they do not spark joy, Drop them. If the vibes are off, Drop them.

… He does make me happy, and he might be a little controling, but not as much as he used to be…I don't cry over him anymore…cause he always comes back.

To me, that sounds like the vibes are off. I wouldn’t go back into that relationship.

The fact that he thinks ok to leave you and come back repeatedly tells me that this is a pattern of neglect that has been formed. My analysis of this situation would be, you're emotionally attached to him enough and probably have underlying abandonment issues, and self worth problems that he is actively taking advantage of to always have you to fall back on as a "no consequences attached partner" Because It sounds like even though he keeps messing up, Big time, you keep taking him back. So he no longer respects you the way a partner should, because there are no boundaries, because he's trained them out of you.

That's just my take, I am Just a person on the internet, so what would I know.

@ElderGod-Winter-The-Renegade-Legionnaire

Relsey I should know what major you are in college, bc I’m friends with you on Snap. Imma say history and psychology but I could be tripping.

@CaseyJ

Honestly, If you're crying over them more than they make you laugh, Drop them. If they're trying to control you, Drop them. If they do not spark joy, Drop them. If the vibes are off, Drop them.

… He does make me happy, and he might be a little controling, but not as much as he used to be…I don't cry over him anymore…cause he always comes back.

To me, that sounds like the vibes are off. I wouldn’t go back into that relationship.

The fact that he thinks ok to leave you and come back repeatedly tells me that this is a pattern of neglect that has been formed. My analysis of this situation would be, you're emotionally attached to him enough and probably have underlying abandonment issues, and self worth problems that he is actively taking advantage of to always have you to fall back on as a "no consequences attached partner" Because It sounds like even though he keeps messing up, Big time, you keep taking him back. So he no longer respects you the way a partner should, because there are no boundaries, because he's trained them out of you.

That's just my take, I am Just a person on the internet, so what would I know.

…I have lost his trust. I mean..I cheated on him…not that I wanted to hurt him, but I have problems with impulse control. And yeah…I have abandonment issues. Lots. And attachment issues….and honestly… I fall in love with people who only end up rejecting me.

Oh! And he always says he will come back once I've fixed myself…never telling me what to fix.

@ElderGod-Winter-The-Renegade-Legionnaire

Homie. Sounds like both of you have your own issues and you aren’t good for each other. You’re not gonna like me for this, but cheating in anyway on a partner is not okay, impulse control or not, abandonment issues or not, attachment issues or not. You made a mistake and your partner/ex or whoever has every right to be mad. You may not have wanted to hurt him, but you did. And inadvertently you are hurt too. Whatever relationship you’re trying to create and fix won’t happen because trust isn’t there anymore. My best advice for you is keep your ex as nothing more than a friend. Do not attempt anything more relationship wise. It’s not going to work. There’s too much toxicity in whatever you’re trying to salvage. Let it go.

@CaseyJ

Homie. Sounds like both of you have your own issues and you aren’t good for each other. You’re not gonna like me for this, but cheating in anyway on a partner is not okay, impulse control or not, abandonment issues or not, attachment issues or not. You made a mistake and your partner/ex or whoever has every right to be mad. You may not have wanted to hurt him, but you did. And inadvertently you are hurt too. Whatever relationship you’re trying to create and fix won’t happen because trust isn’t there anymore. My best advice for you is keep your ex as nothing more than a friend. Do not attempt anything more relationship wise. It’s not going to work. There’s too much toxicity in whatever you’re trying to salvage. Let it go.

Ok

@just_gabs_is_sleepy

@CaseyJ
I am so sorry, that sounds like a rlly sucky situation. Hope you find healing and peace, fam
I'm not gonna try to give relationship advice as I am HELLA single and always have been (plus I just generally suck at advice), but I will say I hope things get better for you :)

@CaseyJ